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Family/Relationships/Parenting
PARENTING TIPS
Children are of our most precious resources, so we must
cherish them; but how do we cherish them while also cherishing
ourselves?'
It is becoming more and more difficult for parents to give
their children what they want without spoiling them.
Some parents cannot bear seeing their children sad or disappointed
in any way so they simply give them anything and everything
they want.
HERE ARE SOME EASY TIPS TO HELP
ESTABLISH LIMITS WITH YOUR CHILDREN:
MAKE SURE 'NO'MEANS NO. If your 'no' sounds more like 'maybe'
your child will pick up on your ambivalence and often begin
to plead, whine or even tantrum. Act secure about saying no
when you have to. Consistency is key.
RECOGNIZE MANIPULATION AND DO NOT GIVE INTO IT. If your
child knows a tantrum will get what is wanted, the tantrums
will happen more frequently.
DO NOT BE AFRAID OF NEGATIVE FEELINGS. It is okay for our
children to express unhappiness or complain. Acknowledge their
feelings but let them know that you are going to stick to
your decision.
BE A PARENT, NOT A FRIEND. Be clear about what your role
is with your child. Children feel more comfortable when boundaries
are clear.
TEACH YOUR CHILD THAT SOMETIMES OTHERS COME FIRST. It is
important to establish that your needs are important too.
"Me"time is vital to being a good parent.
For further assistance, contact: Bon Secours Employee Assistance
Program 757-398-2374 or 1-800-EAP-3257.
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