Bon Secours Employee Assistance Program Leading The Way.
Contact Us
Health Links
Frequently Asked Questions
Confidentiality
About Us Services/Programs Facilities Physicians Classes/Events Cardiac Cancer Surgery Women's Services Employment
 
 
            SERVICES | BON SECOURS EMPLOYEE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM (EAP)



Bon Secours EAP
757-398-2374
or
1-800-EAP-3257

Information provided within this website should not be used during any emergency or for the diagnosis or treatment of any condition. A professional should be consulted in order to provide a full assessment. Call 911 or your local emergency response for all medical/psychiatric emergencies. EAP counselors are available 24 hours per day in crisis situations. Links to other sites are provided for information only and do not constitute endorsements of other sites or their information. For full disclosure please see Use Agreement at the bottom of this page.

 

   
 

School Days

Bon Secours Employee Assistance Program welcomes you to the School Days section of the website which has been developed specifically for school employees. We encourage our readers to submit short articles on topics of interest to teachers or other school personnel. Articles will be published with credit given to the author. Bon Secours believes you are the specialists in this field and would like you to have the opportunity to pass along some of your knowledge and skills. Articles will be added each month. Please indicate that your submission is for the professional article series and give us written permission to print your work on the Bon Secours EAP website. Please e-mail articles with the title, your name, credentials or title, and where you work. Articles can be e-mailed to EAP@bshsi.org for inclusion in the Bon Secours EAP website.

Personal experience stories from “We Can Cope – Can You?” will also be printed in the school section. Please click here and fill out the appropriate information. This series will be printed anonymously.

The Bon Secours EAP team would like to thank all school system employees for their dedication to the education of children and teens. We hope you will find this site helpful in your work life as well as your personal life.

Sane Discipline
Suzanne G. Houff, PhD
Associate Professor of Education
College of Graduate and Professional Studies
University of Mary Washington

If there were one perfect way to maintain discipline, every teacher would immediately employ that strategy in their classroom. If we look to the theorists and the management models the issue can become very confusing. Even as we post our rules and consequences, we have great educational thinkers like Alfie Kohn (1996) suggesting that reward and punishment strategies do not work. Jane Nelson (1996) tells us that kindness, respect, and firmness are the ingredients needed for positive discipline. If we look to William Glasser (1986), he recommends empowering the students by making them responsible for their own behavior. And, while the thinkers are thinking, we deal with little Johnny that won't bring in his homework for anything less than a Jolly Rancher.

In our current society of steps, principles, and strategies to numerically lead us through life, I offer the following theoretical mishmash of guidelines to sane discipline.

  1. Empower the child: No one wants to feel completely powerless over any situation. Start the year by letting students help establish the rules and consequences. (Even though Kohn suggest they do not work) Of course, some will be outlandish and that is when we steer them back in the right direction. When given ownership of the situation, students are more likely to follow the established guidelines.
>> Click Here to Read More"

Could you, your child, or someone else close to you have Attention Deficit Disorder? These sites include information, screening, study skills, resources and networking opportunities.

Seeking information on educational opportunities? Check out this resource of educational options.

Need new ideas to bring into the classroom? Creative ideas are available.

Parenting creates many challenges as well as rewards. Resources are available to help in those situations where a little extra education or support is needed.

Links